The Kathleen Norton Experiment

The Kathleen Norton Experiment
OK, this is my story. I began going out with a girl six years in the past. (We’ll name her Kathleen) She discovered me on POF (Loads of Fish) her profile was a silhouette, which means she didn’t have an image of herself on-line. So, she despatched me footage of her. However I used to be married on the time.
My spouse of 30 years (we bought married younger) was from Denmark, We’ll name her Suzanne, a pink head. However the final 3 years of our marriage was marred in (my fault, I blame me for this) an affair on my finish. (Solely as soon as however that can take the belief out of a relationship) so, the final three years of our marriage she would exit on Friday evening and are available again Saturday morning Then exit Saturday evening and are available again Sunday morning.
She would stroll via the door within the morning and I’d say “WTF? WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL NIGHT?” However I notice that you would be able to’t inform somebody that’s over the age of 18 what do, say, suppose or really feel, they’re a authorized grownup. I do not hit girls, in reality I’ve by no means hit a girl.
Our youngsters have been topic to this show for 3 years. Possibly she was getting even, I do not know. I simply knew that if she wished to get even she had accomplished so 10 fold. The one cause she left our home was after I confronted her one morning in entrance of the children and stated “You aren’t simply hurting me, you might be hurting them as nicely and I pointed to the children, and educating them methods to comply with in your footwear” That she understood! She promptly moved out the following day. She was an excellent girl and I’ll at all times love her.
She filed for separation that 12 months and at last a divorce, two years in the past. I do not forget that she moved in with my mom We’ll name her Diane. However my mom would not put up with crap and instructed her she will be able to stay there if she will get a job. She did for 2 weeks. She she did not work once more and after 3 months of loafing round Diane threw her out. From there she moved in with my oldest daughter and my son. My youngest daughter nonetheless lived with me. My oldest daughter moved out to her personal condo leaving the 2 bed room condo to my ex-wife and my son.
I maintain nothing in opposition to my ex-wife. Suzanne gave me three lovely, beautiful children that I like to demise and almost 30 years of nice intercourse, love, therapeutic and somebody in my nook. Even when I do not see children as a lot as I want to. (me ranting…) However everybody must stay their very own life and their very own tempo So, I maintain nothing in opposition to anybody. Save One…
I used to be a misplaced trigger, it took me a very long time to recover from a fantastic individual that I had wronged. After almost a 12 months of simply looking the entrance door and never getting concerned with something, and I imply something. I’d look out the entrance window, I’d solely exit to go to work, purchase groceries and mow the garden. LOL I used to be actually misplaced. Suzanne was actually good concerning the divorce. She at all times took my calls after I was feeling low. She even stopped by and gave me cash if I used to be slightly shy of the APS invoice (Electrical) or Southwest fuel or century hyperlink. She was such an excellent particular person and I crapped on our relationship.
Ugh… Try to stay that one down (good strive).
So, I ultimately weaned myself off of Suzanne, I I lastly met somebody new. on a courting web site. Of all issues. I hate courting websites, I imply I loath them. For all you readers on the market you recognize what loath means. for all you non-readers (get your self a thesaurus).
Anyhow, I virtually instantly fell in love, however I used to be guarded. This was somebody from a courting web site. Her title was Kathleen. She was an enormous woman. I am not speaking taller than me. I am 6’1″, she was huge within the hips, the waist, her thighs. However I fell head over heals for her. Till she began to attempt to change me and my nature. I mat not be the most effective of individuals however, once more, I’d by no means damage a girl and I by no means will. She had mesmerizing aora about her. She had a masters diploma MBA and had labored in a few of the most prestigious pleases in Manhattan NY. She had been with far more sexual companions than I had and was used to. It was a draw to her. I attempted to finish the connection 3 instances however to no avail.
The final time I instructed her that it was not an excellent match, My son let her within the entrance door and he or she got here up behind me whereas I used to be listening (headphones on) to music and he or she tapped me on the shoulder and instructed me how a lot I wanted her. That was the beginning of my downfall. I’ve fallen ever since, however I had my first date in months yesterday. With an exquisite girl named D-D Now, Kathleen was so imply that on Christmas of 2018 I used to be planning on staying house, not doing something and had simply purchased myself a turkey hungry man dinner.
I used to be staying house. My proper as an grownup sure? Kathleen was injecting herself into my life. She moved in about 3 years in the past, She lived in Shock AZ. A Lengthy journey for my nugatory car. However I used to be mesmerized however her magnificence. She talked me into going along with her to her daughter and future son in legal guidelines new home. I used to be enamored and stated sure. I instructed them how a lot I favored their new home and after cooking (Yep, I am a foodie) jumbo shrimp for everybody which means everybody in her speedy household. Het oldest daughter, her future son in regulation and her youngest daughter, I went out within the again yard to have a smoke, thank the lord for all he has accomplished for me, exhibiting me the right path to take.
5 minutes after I used to be out aspect, Her youngsters (her youngsters!!!) despatched her out to apologize to me. HUH? what, yep she was despatched out to apologize to me from her youngsters. For being so imply to me. Are you able to think about the life I needed to endure when nobody was round. Her youngsters saved me. She left me for the final 4 months now however the longer she stays away from me, the extra I notice that my first instincts have been the most effective. I consider that our nature is what we’re. I do not suppose folks can change their nature. They’ll change their garments, cosmetic surgery can change their face, boobs, take weight off of them. However their nature… I’ve by no means seen it. Sorry however no.
If you’re a imply particular person, you’ll in all probability be imply till the day you die. If you’re a pleasant particular person, you’ll be greatly surprised on this world. Final Yr 2018, I bought into an argument with Kathleen about one thing silly. I discussed that I wished to name her ex-husband and ask him if this was the explanation he left her? Or was it the explanation She left him. Possibly, somebody was onto her and I used to be her newest sufferer. Feels like I’m attempting to cause huh? Nope, I used to be brutally bodily hit a number of instances.
I DON’T hit girls. I used to be instructed I used to be an alcoholic, a lazy ass, a molester in mattress. Kathleen Norton woke me up per week earlier than she left to inform me that somebody was on my brothers property and their canine was taking a crap on the garden. I yelled on the new neighbor for doing this. (I’ve 1 minute of waking up) so sure, I yelled at her, however I used to be following orders from Kathleen. After a short however non-necessary dialog, I walked again into my home the place I used to be crushed once more. (Slugged in my shoulders and glancing off my shoulders to my head). All true. I am undecided why appear to like the folks which are so unhealthy for us!
OK, this is my story. I began going out with a girl six years in the past. (We’ll name her Kathleen) She discovered me on POF (Loads of Fish) her profile was a silhouette, which means she didn’t have an image of herself on-line. So, she despatched me footage of her. However I used to be married on the time.
My spouse of 30 years (we bought married younger) was from Denmark, We’ll name her Suzanne, a pink head. However the final 3 years of our marriage was marred in (my fault, I blame me for this) an affair on my finish. (Solely as soon as however that can take the belief out of a relationship) so, the final three years of our marriage she would exit on Friday evening and are available again saturday morning Then exit Saturday evening and are available again Sunday morning.
She would stroll via the door within the morning and I’d say “WTF? WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL NIGHT?” However I notice that you would be able to’t inform somebody that’s over the age of 18 what do say, suppose or really feel, they’re a authorized grownup. I do not hit girls, in reality I’ve by no means hit a girl.
Our youngsters have been topic to this show for 3 years. Possibly she was getting even, I do not know. I simply knew that if she wished to get even she had accomplished so 10 fold. The one cause she left our home was after I confronted her one morning in entrance of the children and stated “You aren’t simply hurting me, you might be hurting them as nicely and I pointed to the children, and educating them methods to comply with in your footwear” That she understood! She promptly moved out the following day. She was an excellent girl and I’ll at all times love her.
She filed for separation that 12 months and at last a divorce, two years in the past. I do not forget that she moved in with my mom We’ll name her Diane. However my mom would not put up with crap and instructed her she will be able to stay there if she will get a job. She did for 2 weeks. She did not work once more and after 3 months of loafing round Diane threw her out. From there she moved in with my oldest daughter and my son. My youngest daughter nonetheless lived with me. My oldest daughter moved out to her personal condo leaving the 2 bed room condo to my ex-wife and my son.
I maintain nothing in opposition to my ex-wife. Suzanne gave me three lovely, beautiful children that I like to demise and almost 30 years of nice intercourse, love, therapeutic and somebody in my nook. Even when I do not see children as a lot as I want to. (me ranting…) However everybody must stay their very own life and their very own tempo So, I maintain nothing in opposition to anybody. Save One…
I used to be a misplaced trigger, it took me a very long time to recover from a fantastic individual that I had wronged. After almost a 12 months of simply looking the entrance door and never getting concerned with something, and I imply something. I’d look out the entrance window, I’d solely exit to go to work, purchase groceries and mow the garden. LOL I used to be actually misplaced. Suzanne was actually good concerning the divorce. She at all times took my calls after I was feeling low. She even stopped by and gave me cash if I used to be slightly shy of the APS invoice (Electrical) or Southwest fuel or century hyperlink. She was such an excellent particular person and I crapped on our relationship.
Ugh… Try to stay that one down (good strive).
So, I ultimately weaned myself of Suzanne, I I lastly met somebody new. on a courting web site. Of all issues. I hate courting websites, I imply I loath them. for all you readers on the market you recognize what loath means. for all you non-readers (get your self a thesaurus).
Anyhow, I virtually instantly fell in love, however I used to be guarded. This was somebody from a courting web site. Her title was Kathleen. She was an enormous woman. I am not speaking taller than me. I am 6’1″, she was huge within the hips, the waist, her thighs. However I fell head over heals for her. Till she began to attempt to change me and my nature. I mat not be the most effective of individuals however, once more, I’d by no means damage a girl and I by no means will. She had mesmerizing orah about her. She had a masters diploma MBA and had labored in a few of the most prestigious locations in Manhattan NY. She had been with far more sexual companions than I had and was used to. It was a draw to her. I attempted to finish the connection 3 instances however to no avail.
The final time I instructed her that it was not an excellent match, My son let her within the entrance door and he or she got here up behind me whereas I used to be listening (headphones on) to music and he or she tapped me on the shoulder and instructed me how a lot I wanted her. That was the beginning of my downfall. I’ve fallen ever since, however I had my first date in months yesterday. With an exquisite girl named D-D. Now, Kathleen was so imply that on Christmas of 2018 I used to be planning on staying house, not doing something and had simply purchased myself a turkey hungry man dinner.
I used to be staying house. My proper as an grownup sure? regardless , Kathleen had injected herself into my life. She moved in about 3 years in the past, She lived in Shock AZ. A Lengthy journey for my nugatory car. However I used to be mesmerized however her magnificence. She talked me into going along with her to her daughter and future son in legal guidelines new home. I used to be enamored and stated sure. I instructed them how a lot I favored their new home and after cooking (Yep, I am a foodie) jumbo shrimp for everybody which means everybody in her speedy household. Het oldest daughter, her future son in regulation and her youngest daughter, I went out within the again yard to have a smoke, thank the lord for all he has accomplished for me, exhibiting me the right path to take.
5 minutes after I used to be out aspect, Her youngsters (her youngsters!!!) despatched her out to apologize to me. HUH? what, yep she was despatched out to apologize to me from her youngsters. For being so imply to me. Are you able to think about the life I needed to endure when nobody was round. Her youngsters saved me. She left me for the final 4 months now however the longer she stays away from me, the extra I notice that my first instincts have been the most effective. I consider that our nature is what we’re. I do not suppose folks can change their nature. They’ll change their garments, cosmetic surgery can change their face, boobs, take weight off of them. However their nature… I’ve by no means seen it. Sorry however no.
If you’re a imply particular person, you’ll in all probability be imply till the day you die. If you’re a pleasant particular person, you’ll be greatly surprised on this world. Final Yr 2018, I bought into an argument with Kathleen about one thing silly. I discussed that I wished to name her ex-husband and ask him if this was the explanation he left her? Or was it the explanation She left him. Possibly, somebody was onto her and I used to be her newest sufferer. Feels like I’m attempting to cause huh? Nope, I used to be brutally bodily hit a number of instances.
I DON’T hit girls. I used to be instructed I used to be an alcoholic, a lazy ass, a molester in mattress. Kathleen Norton woke me up per week earlier than she left to inform me that somebody was on my brothers property and their canine was taking a crap on the garden. I yelled on the new neighbor for doing this. (I’ve 1 minute of waking up) so sure, I yelled at her, however I used to be following orders from Kathleen. After a short however non-necessary dialog, I walked again into my home the place I used to be crushed once more. (Slugged in my shoulders and glancing off my shoulders to my head). All true.
A couple of week after the incident I noticed my neighbor weeding her entrance yard. I went up and apologized to her. I prolonged my hand in good religion however she pushed it away and gave me a hug as a substitute. I instructed her how sorry I used to be for saying the issues I did. However I defend the folks I like in my life with all the pieces I’ve. I rotated and there standing outdoors my entrance door was Kathleen, head down, arms crossed and tapping a shoe.
Feels like a rambling huh? Nope, I can show all of it! For some unusual cause, I stored all of the texts I used to be despatched on my cell. I’m now one thing I by no means wished to be. A guarded particular person!
PS, in case you learn this and reply to me, I’ll at all times reply to you!
Dennis H, Phoenix, AZ